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New Female Partner Wants Me to Be Cuckold

Friday, June 24th, 2011

If you have a new female partner that wants you to be the cuckold, then this can be an odd feeling. If you do not feel comfortable being the cuckold but you really like her, then you will need to really think about what is more important to you. A lot of the time, when you really like a person you will end up doing things that you never thought you were capable of liking or being comfortable with.

Talk to Her

It is a good idea to talk to her about it and really see what about this idea turns her on. It may help to see her side of things and she may be able to let you know what it is about it that turns her on. The same things that turn her on may help to do the same for you when it comes down to it.

Start a Trial

If you feel like this is something that you can do, then it is wise to start it off on a trial basis. Just remember that it will probably be pretty difficult to go back to how things were once you have already begun. If at any point you begin to feel uncomfortable, then you need to tell her. The sooner you have her stop the easier it will be on your relationship should you try to go back to where you were before. However, a trial can be a great way for you to see that you really do actually enjoy being the cuckold.

How to Settle Your Nerves If You Are New To Swinging

Friday, April 8th, 2011

There are a lot of ways to settle your nerves if you are new to swinging. If you happen to be nervous, then there is no way that you will be able to enjoy yourself while you are in the act. It is a good idea for you to make sure that you and your partner are able to be comfortable with each other so that you can enjoy yourselves.

Go Slow

It is important to not just rush into it. It can make your nerves a lot worse. Take things at your own pace and try not to allow yourself to feel rushed. Make sure that you aren’t afraid to tell another swinger that you need to slow down. If they don’t respect your wishes, then find somebody else.

Have a Drink

It may help for you to have a drink or two before you get started. While it is not recommended that you get completely drunk you may benefit from having enough to calm your nerves. People tend to loosen up after a drink. It may be in your best interest to consider doing this yourself.

Tell Your Partners

Let your partner or partners know that you are nervous and that you may need to take things slower than usual. Most swingers will respect this and want to help you to get through this nerve wracking time. Just make sure that you are honest and upfront with them so that they can understand your feelings. If you try to hide your nerves to your partners they will often think that you don’t like them or there is something wrong with you.

Swinging Advice for New Swingers

Friday, February 11th, 2011

When it comes to swinging advice for new swingers there are only a few things that you should know. As a new swinger it can be scary and frustrating to try to not let your nerves get the best of you. This is why doing just a few things can definitely help you to get yourself a lot more comfortable in your new and exciting environment.

Take it Slow

You may feel like you just want to jump in and go full force right off the bat. However, it is usually best if you take it slow. You will find that if you are nervous that you should let your swinging partner or partners know this. Every swinger is nervous their first time around so it will be easy to find swingers that want to accommodate to your nerves and try to make you feel as comfortable as possible. Take your time and don’t push yourself into doing things that you do not want to do.

Don’t Go Alone

It is sometimes best to go with another person. If you don’t know anybody personally that is a swinger, then search online. Try to find a fellow swinger that is either new like you or is more experienced and can make you feel at ease. Whomever you prefer you will find that when you have another swinger on your side that it will make things a lot easier. Going by yourself can add a lot of stress and trouble to your new situation.