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Advice for Coaxing a Partner into Swinging

Sunday, July 3rd, 2011

There are a few different tips and advice for coaxing a partner into swinging. Whether you are an experienced swinger or new to it yourself it can be difficult to get your partner to want to jump on the bandwagon with you. It is a good idea to start slow and let them set up some boundaries first.

Start Slow

From bringing it up to having them try it the key is to start slow. You will need to start by casually bringing it up and then going from there. It is usually best if you allow it to sink in and see what your partner really thinks about it. If you spring it on them with no warning and want an answer right away the answer will almost always be “no”.

Establish Rules

It is a good idea to establish some rules and some boundaries. Talk it over with them and see what types of rules they would feel comfortable with and what rules would make them more comfortable. You will find that whenever you allow them to have some say in the matter they may warm up to the idea more.

Find Partners

It is important that they are there to help you find a partner for them to swing with. As a swinger you will find that the entire experience will rely a lot on whether or not you enjoy your partner. If you can find a swinger that your partner enjoys, then they will be a lot more likely to want to try it out.

Great Tips for New Couples Seeking Other Swinger Couples

Friday, March 4th, 2011

There are a lot of great tips for new couples that are seeking other swinging couples. If you happen to be a new swinging couple that is looking for other swingers that you can meet up with, then it is a good idea to figure out a few things first. You will find that the more that you know about yourself and your partner the better off you will be.

Find Your Type

Every couple has a type. It may not even be about looks but about sexual techniques. You will find that the more people you swing with the more of a type that you will develop. It is a good idea to try swingers outside of your type just in case you are able to find new people to add to your type.

Establish Rules and Boundaries

Every couple will usually start off with rules and boundaries. You and your partner will need to establish them with each other and then with your potential partners. It is a good idea to find swinging couples that are understand and are willing to work with you and your partner so that everybody is comfortable.

Where to Look

There are a few different places where you can find fellow swingers. You can look online at local swinger’s sites for people that may be a good match. You can also check out the nearest swingers club for fellow couples. If you happen to already know some swingers, then get invited to a meeting and get yourself established in your local swinger community.