Advice for Coaxing a Partner into Swinging
There are a few different tips and advice for coaxing a partner into swinging. Whether you are an experienced swinger or new to it yourself it can be difficult to get your partner to want to jump on the bandwagon with you. It is a good idea to start slow and let them set up some boundaries first.
From bringing it up to having them try it the key is to start slow. You will need to start by casually bringing it up and then going from there. It is usually best if you allow it to sink in and see what your partner really thinks about it. If you spring it on them with no warning and want an answer right away the answer will almost always be “no”.
It is a good idea to establish some rules and some boundaries. Talk it over with them and see what types of rules they would feel comfortable with and what rules would make them more comfortable. You will find that whenever you allow them to have some say in the matter they may warm up to the idea more.
It is important that they are there to help you find a partner for them to swing with. As a swinger you will find that the entire experience will rely a lot on whether or not you enjoy your partner. If you can find a swinger that your partner enjoys, then they will be a lot more likely to want to try it out.