Archive for April, 2011

How to Settle Your Nerves If You Are New To Swinging

Friday, April 8th, 2011

There are a lot of ways to settle your nerves if you are new to swinging. If you happen to be nervous, then there is no way that you will be able to enjoy yourself while you are in the act. It is a good idea for you to make sure that you and your partner are able to be comfortable with each other so that you can enjoy yourselves.

Go Slow

It is important to not just rush into it. It can make your nerves a lot worse. Take things at your own pace and try not to allow yourself to feel rushed. Make sure that you aren’t afraid to tell another swinger that you need to slow down. If they don’t respect your wishes, then find somebody else.

Have a Drink

It may help for you to have a drink or two before you get started. While it is not recommended that you get completely drunk you may benefit from having enough to calm your nerves. People tend to loosen up after a drink. It may be in your best interest to consider doing this yourself.

Tell Your Partners

Let your partner or partners know that you are nervous and that you may need to take things slower than usual. Most swingers will respect this and want to help you to get through this nerve wracking time. Just make sure that you are honest and upfront with them so that they can understand your feelings. If you try to hide your nerves to your partners they will often think that you don’t like them or there is something wrong with you.